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The Six-Steps of Well-formed Outcomes in NLP, Part 2
Dr Borr
There are major differences between NLP goal setting, NLP well formed outcome and wishful thinking. Wishful thinking is what most people do during the day and the life. They wish that they had this and that without turning that wish into a goal and taking the goal through the process of the well formed outcome. Remember that the goals have outcomes. And outcomes are intended or unintended. The goal setting becomes more realisable when it is conducted through the process of well formed outcomes.
4. Resources
Collin Powell once said the secret of success is adequate preparation. For each goal that you want to achieve or any well formed outcome that is supposed to be accomplished you need a wide variety of resources and preparation. NLP emphasises more on mental and psychological resources. Other resources may be financial, intellectual, professional, educational and many other things. You need to think about all these resources you need to have before starting a goal if you do not want to get frustrated at the middle of the project and abandon it. Millions of projects are abandoned everyday and every year because all the requirements for their success were not thought of and provided when they began the project. NLP draws your attention to preparing what ever is required to succeed and providing it.
5. Have a defined time frame
Timeline has a particular importance in NLP as everything happens in time and place. You must therefore have a timeline for starting a goal and completing it. Thinking in terms of Timeline requires what I call systematic thinking in which you start from the beginning and go step by step systematically until you accomplish it. The example is start from A, then go to B, then go to C and then go to D to until you reach Z. You need always a place and context in which you want the well formed outcome to be achieved. As an NLP trainer I have realised that the context in which to achieve a goal is very significant. And context makes goals more specific and related to specific places, issues and people. As much you need a timeline in NLP you need a context too. You need to know where you want to do it and when you want to do it. Creating a Timeline for starting and finishing a project compels you to work according to deadline and finish it accordingly. At the same time when you divide the job into small pieces of A, B, C... you make it easier to accomplish.
6. Be ecological in having consideration for cost and consequences for oneself and others affected.
This is the last important part that I have been talking about in the previous articles: intended and unintended consequences for yourself, for others, and four everything else. You have to think what would happen to you when you have achieved it. There are a lot of people who go to NLP courses and consequently they begin to improve themselves and they expect the members of family to do the same thing but they do not show any sign or willingness to improve themselves. This creates tension among the members of family as the expectations among them will change. You may write a book and do not think of the consequences. You may face the situation that Salman Rushdie encountered when he wrote the Satanic Verses.
If you follow these simple steps of NLP and well formed outcome when you set a goal, make a decision and prepare a project, you are more likely to achieve success.
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